Showing posts with label summer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label summer. Show all posts

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Summer of 2010

So weekly posts went to monthly and now they seem to have gone to quarterly...


What's my problem? I'd like to be able to say that my life is so glamorous that I just can't be bothered, but really now, who are we kidding?


The real reason I happen to have this evening free for blogging? I originally planned to spend it catching up on this season of True Blood via HBO On Demand at the home of two of my main gays. However, they forgot that tonight was the Miss Universe Pageant. And, well, all boys have to have their priorities. So I opted to stay home and watch the Titans game instead.


Yes, you are picturing all of this correctly. I am sitting on my couch watching Monday Night Football while a few blocks away two grown men sit watching Miss Universe, texting me with updates every ten minutes.


Anyway... there have been other things keeping me from posting. Grouchy things. Good and fun things. General life and stuff things. So here's a rundown of how I've spent my summer.


1. Sweating. This hot-as-all-frickin'-blue-blazes summer keeps sucking up my will to move.


2. Laughing. I have seriously funny friends and family members that I find myself being thankful for more and more in these crazy times. I went on a road trip with a friend and her two kids who kept me giggling almost constantly. My aunts came to visit and my family has a way of cracking ourselves up when a bunch of us get together in one room. And, I attended a wedding with a group of friends and I imagine we'll be retelling stories and sharing pictures for some time to come.


3. Crying. The heat depresses me and makes me more of an easier crier than usual. Over my flood-damaged city. Over friends who've broken each others hearts and mine in the process. Over Story Corps on NPR every damn Friday. Over a newly adopted baby and her patient and deserving parents. Over a dead opossum in my yard. How I'm able to keep my body hydrated enough in this weather to form tears is beyond me, but somehow I seem to have managed.


4. Fretting. It's a never-ending list. Illness. The economy. Oil spill. Proposition 8. The upcoming college football season. But seriously... the big issue weighing on my mind lately is all of the hate-mongering over religion that seems to be brewing. It's likely what will push me from fretting over into fuming.


5. Sweeping. The dog hair in this house has reached epic proportions this summer. I've almost convinced myself to buy a loom and try to profit from this freak show. Keep an eye out for my wares on Etsy. I'm sure they'll be a huge hit.



So that's the season in a nutshell. I wish I had a groovy photo montage to share. I'm coveting an Olympus PEN digital camera so hopefully my autumn and/or winter will be well-documented. After all, I'll need to show off all of the hand-knit collie-blend scarves I'm planning.


In the meantime, I've just been informed that Miss USA did not make the top 15 and I apparently have some consoling to do. At least the Titans are winning...



Source: http://worldaccordingtogert.blogspot.com/2010/08/summer-of-2010.html

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Friday, August 20, 2010

And heeerrreee's Piper!

We checked in at Portland Adventist Hospital at 6a.m. on Friday, August 6th. We were put in room 2402 and hunkered down to get ready for the surgery. It was strange to sit in the bed, attached to various monitors, knowing that it was simply a count-down until we'd meet our girl (who still didn't have a name, by the way).




Dr. Nakamura was late to the hospital, but Peggy had slept there for two days and nights in a row, so she was on hand. The anesthesiologist, Dr. Lovittz, came in to check on us around 7:30 - and I fell in love immediately! We had three different anesthesiologists when Nathaniel was born and I disliked all of them; we had one with Hazel and she was nice enough; this most recent anesthesiologist was a wonderful man! He took such good care of us. He was our advocate during the birth, making sure we had our moments to take pictures of the birth and to connect with the baby. I remember Nate going over to see our girl when she was being taken care of by the nursery nurse and he stood right in my line of sight; Dr. Lovittz noticed immediately and walked over to Nate; he took him gently by the shoulders and had him step a little to the left so I could see the kiddo, too. I never even said anything to him - he was so perceptive and thoughtful!

Anyway, back to the beginning. Our c-section was scheduled for 7:45a.m., but since Dr. Nakamura was late, we didn't get wheeled in to the operating room until about 8:20. I started to feel really emotionally overwhelmed and anxious while we were waiting for the doctors, so I kinda , um, checked out for awhile. I dozed while Nate and our friend and "event photographer" Lindsi chatted. Finally a nurse and Dr. Lovittz came back into the room to collect us for surgery.


They took me in first to set me up on the operating table and detangle all my wires and such. Nate came in just in time for my blood pressure to drop (because of the spinal) - he was a pro at holding my barf bag. I had so much going on at this point: anxiety, adrenaline, anticipation, fear...I was a mess! I was loopy from the meds, too, so that made it risky to say anything to anyone at any point during the operation (although I did chime in on a conversation between the doctors and nurses about the differences between Rug Rats and Smurfs).


They put up the curtain and started cutting without much ado. I became emotional almost immediately. Nate held my hand and my head while I wept and muttered prayers for our girl. I knew this c-section would take longer than Hazel's, which had been rushed after 46 hours of labor. Finally I felt Peggy climb on top of me and I knew our girl was about to be born.




Something strange and disconcerting happened at that point, though. Peggy climbed back down and there wasn't a baby yet. I felt a shift in the atmosphere of the room. I only found out later what it was. Two things had happened: Dr. Nakamura had opted to make a smaller incision this round than Dr. Sargent had made last time, plus the baby had her right hand up by her face and refused to move it, which made her too wide to fit through the incision. Dr. N couldn't deliver our girl with her hand by her face, so he tried putting his hand in the incision to move her arm, but she would snap it right back before he could get her out. They had to make the incision a little larger and then use a vacuum to get her out.



She was born at exactly 9a.m. - she cried at first, more so than Hazel had initially, but then she calmed down quickly. Hazel settled when Nate began talking to her; Piper calmed all on her own. She was a limp little girl who allowed the nursery nurse to get all her stats quite easily. I knew there wasn't anything wrong with her; she was just content (a word I've used to describe her fairly constantly since her birth).


She weighed in at 6lbs. 8oz. and measured 20 inches long at 38 weeks and 4 days (Hazel was 7lbs. 14oz. and 19 and 3/4 inches long at 40 weeks and 1 day).


I had this incredible moment of recognition when I met Hazel for the first time; I wasn't expecting that this round, though. When I met Piper, I knew her but it wasn't the same as with Hazel. It was so easy to look at Piper and recognize her as my daughter, even though her coloring was so weird to me (her eyelashes are super blonde and her hair has a golden tint; where in the world did that come from). She was happy to nestle in with Nate and I will they cleaned up the OR and stitched up my incision. I have to say, someone should write a book on what should not be said in an OR during an operation. I heard a nurse say, "Wow! I've never had that happen before!" Of course, my immediate thought was something dire having to do with my incision or the baby, but no, she had opened a packaged/sterilized piece of equipment and it had shot out of her hands.



Piper was given to Nate and he brought her over to meet me. Keep in mind she still didn't have a name at this point. I was trying to figure out what to call her, as was Nate, but we couldn't pin it down out of our three options. We were taking suggestions from the hospital staff.



We were wheeled back to our room where we bonded with the baby for a little bit. We talked with her and I nursed; Peggy came in and gave a few more details about the delivery. Someone mentioned the vacuum, which was a total shock to me. I had no idea that would even be an option during a c-section. I wish that hadn't happened, especially since it intensified her jaundice.


Here's a quick picture of Peggy in the operating room. Notice the blood. I think it's fascinating! I was chuckling at the blood that had landed everywhere during the operation. It was all over the doctors and the lights. I blame the drugs for the fact that I found it funny.


Nate and I had three name options that we kept toying with. We might use them someday, but for this little one, Piper fit best. Don't worry, though: It took three days for us to finally commit to Piper Sue. Other options were Hollis and Padget (still with the middle name Sue, after my mom).


Piper is petite. She is so feminine and adorable. Her cry is so cute to me, and she's very specific about when she cries. I know she'll find her voice someday and cry at anything and everything just to hear it, but for now I'm loving her little wail.


I have pictures of family meeting Piper, but I'll have to post those next time (they're on another CD). I'll leave you with one last picture of Miss Hazel. She was so confused by our stay in the hospital. She spent Friday night through Monday afternoon with Rick and Karen; they brought her by the hospital one or two times a day. She hated the room I was in. She'd run around once she was inside, but it became a battle to get her to cross the threshold. It broke my heart when she wouldn't get near me but just stared at me with this deadpan look on her face.




Piper had jaundice so she spent from noon on Sunday through noon on Monday in the nursery under bilirubin lights. I had to wake up every three hours, trek over to the nursery to nurse her, go back to my room and pump, and then take what I pumped back to the nursery so they could supplement her feeding. By the time we left the hospital Piper's weight was down to 6lbs. 1oz., which wasn't as horrible (percentage wise) as Hazel's drop had been (from 7lbs. 14oz. down to 6lbs. 14oz.), but it still had me worried. Her jaundice was under control for the most part, so we were discharged and brought her home.


Hazel was delivered to us by Rick and Karen that evening. She was super tired and quite unsure of the little baby who had followed us home from the hospital. She's still trying to adjust to Piper, and I know that will take quite a bit of time. She did try to knock the daylights out of Piper the other day, so that was hard on all of us, but for the most part she's fairly impartial.


Okay, if I missed anything about Piper's birth, I'll be sure to include it in the next update. More later!


(P.S. If there are some serious misspellings and blunders in this post, I blame my meds. I'm battling mastitis right now and I'm on quite a list of medication, most of which make me nauseous, dizzy, and disoriented. Good timing when it comes to writing a blog, right?)

Source: http://nateandrobbiesue.blogspot.com/2010/08/and-heeerrreees-piper.html

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Thursday, August 19, 2010

Wilson County Fair 8-19-10

FINALLY! After two days of rain-outs, I finally made it to the Wilson County Fair. This was my first visit and my sole purpose was to improve on my photography.


I've never really shot anything that is constantly moving like carnival rides, and there were times I thought I'd scream because a shot I thought was nice ended up fuzzy. I was able to satisfy with 133 pictures of the over 400 that I took.  I also took some video of the rides and had a pretty good time.


I managed to eat a foot-long hot dog, a coke, a funnel-cake, and a Cherry Slush throughout the night.  I thought it might be a little depressing going to the fair by myself, but I found people to talk to...took pictures for people (with their camera) and just strolled.




I really enjoyed seeing and hearing the kids squeals on these rides, and at the games. Makes me wish I had one.


















The fair runs through this Sunday 8/22 and you should go if you have the time. I may go to the Tennessee State Fair next month in Nashville, but this was a bigger, better and much safer experience.

Source: http://awj68.blogspot.com/2010/08/wilson-county-fair-8-19-10.html

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Monday, August 16, 2010

Summer Days, Drifting Away...




Another summer is almost over.  Classes begin again next week, and it will be a flurry of lesson plans, grading, and meetings.  But until then, I want to focus on the things that make summer summer.  Like:



1) Peaches.  Pictured above with Greek yogurt, honey, and blueberry granola.  Yummy.  I love the colors of a peach and this one was especially pretty, all sunset colors - orange and red and yellow and pink.



2)  Hanging out at the pool.  Our apartment complex has a nice pool that is never crowded when it first opens in the morning.  I've enjoyed having friends with kids over to swim - I have never met a kid who didn't think swimming was the acme of human bliss.



3)  Fun reading.  I haven't had as much of this as I would like, what with the dissertation and all, but there has been some.  I had an especially fun evening, curled up with Robin McKinley's Chalice while it stormed distantly outside.  For me, reading is always enhanced by atmosphere.



4) Stargazing.  I realize that I am not outside enough at night.  Like most people, I get home, I flop down, I turn on the TV and forget that there are things like sunsets and stars and moons out there.  Jordan and I did turn out for the Pleiades meteor shower the other night.  We took the car around to the local landing strip where it was marginally darker than at our apartment.  We sat on the trunk, leaning back against the back windshield and watched.  We saw one really amazing meteor and then watched as clouds rolled in, with lightning flickering inside them.  It was pretty cool.



5)  Baseball.  I am not a sports fan.  But I kind of am.  Our church has "Family Fun Night" every third Sunday.  We have our business meeting and then do something...fun.  This summer, that has meant ice cream and a softball game.  It is kind of amazing to watch the grown ups and the little kids all playing on teams together, people on the opposite teams sharing gloves as they switch places from infield to outfield, other members sitting on the sidelines cheering.  It is not "church softball" in the sense that it is organized or practiced.  It is a pick-up game in a field.  It is fun.  We also had fun taking our youth group to a minor league game the other night.  It was quintessential summer to sit in the stands, hearing the crack of a bat.  I can't believe I'm waxing sentimental over a ballgame, but there you go.



6)  Watermelon.  And blueberries, corn on the cob, tomatoes, squash, lettuce.  How can I live the long winter without them?  Our church is really amazing.  Almost every Sunday, someone brings us a bag of cucumbers or some tomatoes.  Usually there is a heap of produce sharing space with bulletins and brochures on the table in the foyer, free to anyone who cares to cart them away.  Often there are also farm fresh eggs.  I love our little country church!



OK, now some things that I haven't gotten to do this summer:

1) Go to the beach - we did go to England so I am not in any way complaining about not seeing the beach this summer.  But it is the summer thing. 



2) Go camping.  I love camping; and camping in the fall is pretty spectacular too, but that rarely works out.  Jordan and I have plenty of camping equipment that we never use, because a camping trip requires planning and somehow we just never plan it.  I want to go camping!  Camp fires, marshmallows, stars, lanterns, the earthy-nylon smell of a tent; I never sleep better than I do curled in a flannel-lined sleeping bag in chilly mountain night air.



And, some transitional-type things:



1) Back to school shopping.  My needs are few at this point: a new legal pad (white instead of yellow, this time) and my new bag, but I enjoyed buying things to donate for our school supplies drive at church.  Pencils and notebooks, yay!



2) Knitting.  Working with wool in summer seems kind of pointless, but with fall around the corner I'm in the knitting mood again.  Right now I am working on a corset-style vest in a beautiful amethyst-colored yarn - pictures to follow, of course!

Source: http://domesticscholar.blogspot.com/2010/08/summer-days-drifting-away.html

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The Torrid Tartan Affair: Introduction


I have always wanted a summer fling… to fuse the passionate, have-to-taste-you-immediately nature of lust with the addictive, I’ve-never-felt-this-way-before nature of intimacy.


It is certainly not love, but it could be something like it… It’s every little girls dream!


Well, “every” might be a bit of a stretch, but it has certainly been this little girl’s dream for a long time. However, I have failed every summer – with the exception, it gives me great pleasure to say, with this one.


My lovelies, I believe I have mentioned to you before that one of my first loves is and will always be Sea Island, GA.


It’s the location of my first kiss. It’s where I went to third base for the first time (in the old school French, feel, finger, fuck spectrum). And, it's where I had my first (and only) Ginger - who consequently, fulfilled the two previously mentioned firsts in two consecutive years.


SI is a dreamscape, a wonderland, a southern elitist getaway – and now serves as the home to my first summer fling-a-ding-ding. It couldn't be any more appropriate.


I think it’s safe to say that y’all know me fairly well by now, so you are certainly aware about my love of recounting every excruciating detail of a story. It’s no lie that I love nitty-gritty specifics almost as much as I love a man in Nantucket red pants. Mmm…


But, take this as a warning: I’m sparing no one with the following retelling of The Minx’s Summer Spectacular. It’s time to get dirty, kids. Really dirrty. <- Note the second ‘r’ (X-Tina Aguilera style). Boys, girls, pets and small children – no matter who comes across this URL, I’m baring all...


At this point, I picture you, dear readers, ensconced in poodle skirts dancing about in choreographed fashion, chorusing “tell me more, tell me more, like does he have a car” – well, no. The ‘he’ in the following tale doesn’t. But he could ride me as adeptly as he rode his bicycle to work everyday...


But, as per usual, I both tease and digress.


I shall now conclude this lengthy introduction and present to you Part 1 of a 4 part series: The Torrid Tartan Affair.




Source: http://theminxnextdoor.blogspot.com/2010/08/torrid-tartan-affair-introduction.html

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PCOS - but not a perfect "Out of the Box" meal






I made a squash dish, complete with mushrooms and tomatoes hmmmm good.  I cook the mushrooms and garlic in clarified butter, then I add the zucchini and yellow squash, at the very end I add the tomato and finish cooking with basil added for extra flavor.  It's a fresh uncomplicated flavor. 


The chicken was grilled on my favorite George Foreman GRP99 Next Generation Grill with Nonstick Removable Plates. I had marinated the chicken in a chipolte seasonings, served on the sandwich thins, with a touch of cheddar cheese.


I had a crystal light sugar fee raspberry lemonade to top it off.


I wish I was a full and complete foodie, but here I am doing what I can to manage my PCOS with good foods.  The chips were not a part of that plan, but they were given to my husband from a client.  So a whipped up some guacamole for dip, and enjoyed a couple.


Here's to dreaming and living the good life!


Now I'm off to finish my sitcom, work out and do the dishes before I dash of to sleep. 

Source: http://dawn-black.blogspot.com/2010/08/pcos-but-not-perfect-out-of-box-meal.html

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Birthday Pool party ^ - ^

Hey guys! Sorry for the lack of updating this blog. This is my last week of summer so I'm gunna try and post as much as I can before I go back to . . . ugh . . . school. Oh and there aren't gunna be pictures of the actual party because my camera sorta broke so I didn't wanna risk permanently damaging it during the party by having it near the water. Plus, I was having too much fun!


As I stated in my previous post, I had a pool party intended for the celebration of both me and my sister's birthday's (her's was June 1st, mine will be August 25th) and let's just say, the beginning was wack. First of all, when we got to the pool area in my apartments, there was a freaking FUNDRAISER going on by Statefarm T___T And there was music by a freaking DJ, free food, games, omgosh it was ridiculous how happening that place was. I've never seen that pool so full of people before ever since we moved in. They couldn't have picked a better day to do this.


So that got me a bit pissed but I was really hot trying to get everything out of my sister car to the area we decided to host the party at. What didn't help was that we were pretty behind on setting everything up. By the time it was 6pm we decided to say screw it to all the decorations we originally intended to put up for the party because at this point it was too late to rush through them especially while this extravaganza that was going on not too far from where we were at. We didn't wanna look pathetic in comparison, and trust me, we would have. The cupcakes and ice in the cooler were starting to melt, so we pretty much didn't bother with the food because it was all useless at this point. Only thing that ended up making it were the drinks thankfully.


My friends started coming around 6:30ish which made me glad because at least somebody showed up. Speaking of people showing up, I had initially invited well over 20 or so people to come but about 13 or so showed up which wasn't so bad to be honest. At first I thought it would be a lot less than that but to my surprise more people came as the night went on than I expected. My only problem was that some of the people I did invite honestly could give a shit if they let me know whether or not they were coming and that pissed me off. I know that people have other plans going on throughout the week that they cannot get out of but for you to completely blow me off is like a smack in my face ESPECIALLY since I've definitely been there for you whenever you were having your little "shindig". But it's cool, because honestly the people who did show up made that night unforgettable! And for those that I could tell genuinely wanted to come but couldn't, I still got lots of love for you! At least they tried, although I can't speak for others.


Back onto the actual night, the Statefarm group left around 7pm however the big crowd of people were still lingering around. A lot of them were college kids so I felt intimidated by being around all beer cans, cigarette smoke intoxicating the air and those muscley tatted up men . . . oh so muscley . . . .heh heh wha? Oh but yeah we kinda just chilled in one corner but they kept begging us to join their volleyball tournament. We all said no at first but then later joined because we got kind of bored so we thought, eh what the hell? I sucked to bad at it! Even when we later switched the ball to a bigger one I still stunk XD Everyone was teasing me but I ended up being on the winning team so in their face~


We partied on till about 11:30 and then as majority of my friends were already gone we decided we had to end it. Overall the night was so much fun. It was probably the best summer night I've had so far. Yes, even better than when I was in New York because I experienced this with my friends :] What else could you ask for during the summer, right? Anyway, I'll spam pics of the presents I got and end the rambling here. Thanks for reading!











From my boyfriend's sister. They knew me and my sis love gummies! I finished them the next day :]










Crazy cool gifts from Erika! I've always wanted a fragrance from Harajuku Lovers. And the mask...omg. It gets a close up of it's own.










Just look at it! I've never owned one before and I love that it has red and black accents. I can't wait to wear this for some fun occasion :D










Cute charm teddy bear from Katherine. She got it from H-Mart and I can't wait to put it in my car when I get it this December ^ ^ Yes, the perfume bottle wanted to join in on the pic. lol~











This gift was from Danielle and I definitely needed more studded earrings but my pierced holes are too small :( I have to try *cringes* breaking them in >  < Ugh! It's gunna suck.










This is from Odely. Her presents and even the card all looked like they were handmade and it just seemed so thoughtful of her to take the time to do all of this.










She even drew the cute little tokidoki icons around it and made little paper stars and origami inside of it. It's so cute!

Source: http://crystallyzed.blogspot.com/2010/08/birthday-pool-party.html

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Summertime Miscellany: Right Brain/Left Brain














There is a very provocative book I read years ago that I keep thinking of: The Alphabet Versus the Goddess (Viking, 1998), by physicist Leonard Shlain. Basically, it claims that our left brains became more prominent after humankind began to communicate through text, versus the pre-print era when we thought and communicated more visually (via the right brain). In this age of the Internet, we move more towards a balance of the two. Shlain aligns text with linear male thinking and women with more holistic, visual states of mind, a premise that seems too simplistic for me. Yet I am fascinated by the rapid changes in our culture as far as modes of communicating go. We have become very graphics-rich. Everyone is a photographer. Graphic novels are beoming de rigueur. We consume visual content via tv, ipods, film, YouTube, email photo attachments, you name it....



Sitting down to blog this week, I felt less verbally inspired than usual, so I reached for my camera and went out to the yard. Yesterday I snapped the photo of our one lone cucumber growing in the garden, hardly worth the dozens of gallons of water we've poured into it, not to mention compost, mulch, etc. But maybe there will more cukes coming. Sometimes I think the cuke and squash flowers just don't get pollinated correctly since it is always a challenge to succeed with these veggies in hot humid, Houston. Why do we even try? Darned if I know, but that's a different post..... I thought about doing some research on cucumbers and composing a whole post about that, but it felt too forced. So this morning I took a few more photos of things growing in the yard and wanted to be done with it, just post a few photos and move on with my week since I am busy getting ready to hang my art show.


But this notion of visual versus text kept gnawing at me. My brain is leaning more towards the visual these days since I am making so much art. But then again, I also read a lot. I'm not sure I can conceive of a world without text. Artist's Way author Julia Cameron recommends giving up reading for a week or so if you are a blocked artist. I'm not sure I could ever do that! There is much to be said for being fluid between both modes of communication. I love to pour over native American war and pony paint symbols, cave paintings and other pre-text images. Apparently most people picked up paint or sticks to draw before there was text. They took "art" for granted.


Drafting an artist's statement for my forthcoming show, I wrote that I love collage because it serves as an alternate reality where anything is possible. Because it is often multi-layered and complex, collage has the potential to portray the states of paradox, fancifulness and imagination common to the human brain. Only through collage do I feel I am saying things words can't express. We have become very sophisticated in our visual communication, and I do believe that involves some integration of the mind's ability to move back and forth between the brain's hemispheres. We have so many digital tools that allow us to express ourselves. Talking to or everyone (or no one) here in the blogosphere, I am grateful for this mode of communication that blends words and pictures. Peace out!


photos by KAO" Lone Cuke, Chickens a Pecking, Plastic Flamingos "Pete & Petunia", Yard Flowers with Metal Chicken Figurine






Source: http://speedoflight-lonestarlibrarian.blogspot.com/2010/08/summertime-miscellany-right-brainleft.html

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Sunday, August 15, 2010

On Hypocrisy

Ramadan, the month of joy and worship, has come again for another round. This time in the summer to spice up the fasting.


To me, I think it's pretty much like last year. Mostly staying at home, usually going to visit grandma and sometimes going out with some friends of mine. For a guy like me, I'm usually glad to get out of home and do anything worth while; I met whom I'd really like to consider as the best college mates, or even friends, on a fasting outing the other day. It was really great seeing them all in one place... Happy Ramadan!


But let's face it, Ramadan is technically not about going out with your friends, nor is it about food and oriental candy, or even about starring at a screen with meaningless shows and an inappropriately dressed woman telling us riddles (Seriously? That's pretty lame).


It's about getting to do good deeds and improving your relationship with Allah. We all know the drill; reading 20 pages of Quran daily and going to Taraweeh in a mosque. Also not to say the F word (Food? :P). Sometimes I observe people challenging each other in doing good deeds. But to my own surprise, that only happens in Ramadan.


I said Ramadan is about getting to do good deeds and not doing good deeds only. What I mean here is that a lot of us do good deeds only during Ramadan. Nothing is taken as a habit the moment this month ends. In my opinion, I think this is a case of hypocrisy.


"What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas." Omit Vegas and place Ramadan instead.


Ask yourselves: Will I read 20 pages a day even after Ramadan? Will I continue to pray on time and not miss a single prayer unlike usual? Will I commence starring at a screen with hotties when Ramadan ends? Will I re-use the F word again (This time it isn't food)? This is something I really criticize about Muslims in Ramadan; they don't get to do good things as long-term habits, they just do it for the sake of the event.


Here is a call for righteousness. If we were to do good deeds, we should continue to do them. Actions in one month will not please Allah forever. If we had the power and strength to do them in one month, why not do them throughout the year? Perhaps till the day we're bellow our grave stones.


I think Ramadan is a wake-up call for those with bad ideologies about religion and life, rather than a call for temporal censorship and temporal good behavior.


"(102)Do the Unbelievers think that they can take My servants as protectors besides Me? Verily We have prepared Hell for the Unbelievers for (their) entertainment. (103) Shall we tell you of those who lose most in respect of their deeds? (104) Those whose efforts have been wasted in this life, while they thought that they were acquiring good by their works?(105) They are those who deny the Signs of their Lord and the fact of their having to meet Him (in the Hereafter): vain will be their works, nor shall We, on the Day of Judgment, give them any weight. (106) That is their reward, Hell, because they rejected Faith, and took My Signs and My Messengers by way of jest." Sooret Al Kahf.

Source: http://amwfarid.blogspot.com/2010/08/on-hypocrisy.html

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